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Abortion, Sidewalk Counseling, and True Religion

Editor’s note: this article was originally published on the Biblical Counseling Coalition’s website by Andrew King here. This article is published with the author’s permission, and if you would like to learn more about the Biblical Counseling Coalition and their resources, please visit their website www.biblicalcounselingcoalition.org. It was one of those moments that you can never dislodge from your memory. He was walking quickly, but I tried to keep pace. I was about four steps behind him when he suddenly wheeled and gripped me with tearful eyes and an expression that betrayed his disorientation and panic. “My little girl was raped,” he said through sobs, “what am I supposed to do with that?” He stood weeping for a few seconds before returning to the rapid trek to his vehicle. As the father of a newborn daughter at the time, I could not stomach the thoughts this dad was processing. Even worse, I could not fathom the plight of the teenage girl who sat alone in the waiting room of an abortion clinic. She had endured an unspeakable act of violence and had a positive pregnancy test to show for it. She hoped an abortion would, in some way, walk back

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Unborn Personhood: Answering the Original Argument

Abortion is the most significant human rights crisis of our generation, and fetal personhood is the question at the center of the abortion argument. In this article, I will rebut pro-choice philosopher Mary Anne Warren’s theory of developmental personhood, in which personhood is said to develop after conception. I will start by briefly explaining her argument, and then I will provide philosophical and biblical objections to her reasoning and demonstrate that personhood is intrinsic to our humanity and therefore begins at conception.  Evaluating Warren’s Argument Mary Anne Warren recognizes the importance of fetal personhood to the abortion conversation, and she makes personhood the center of her pro-choice argument. Scott Klusendorf, author of The Case for Life, identifies the personhood of the unborn as the central question upon which the entire abortion debate hinges. Warren’s view of personhood is still a central argument among today’s pro-choice thinkers. If Warren’s argument can be thoroughly disproven, then much of the pro-choice intellectual position will collapse. Warren’s argument in support of abortion is that “a fetus cannot be considered a member of the moral community, the set of beings with full and equal moral rights, for the simple reason that it is not a

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Church Ministry

A Whole-Life, Pro-Life Ethic: Reflecting the Heart of Christ

Editor’s note: this article was originally published by Revive Our Hearts by Portia Collins here. If you are interested in what the ministry of Revive Our Hearts does and how you can be involved, please visit their website reviveourhearts.com. The decision to have an abortion during my college years is undoubtedly one of the most regrettable choices I’ve ever made. I wish I had been compelled by some sense of safety, support, and biblical guidance to choose differently, but at the time, I felt utterly lost—burdened by sin, confused about life, and without hope.  Looking back, I wonder what it might have been like to experience the safety and support of the Church in those days. Instead, I feared that I would be seen as nothing more than my sin and circumstances, and I simply could not see a way forward as a young, unwed mother. Even now, I ask a broader question: How can the Church become a place of safety, support, and biblical guidance for women considering abortion? How do we, as believers, fight for the unborn beyond words or public policy? While both are important, the biblical call to protect life extends further—it calls us to a whole-life,

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The Sanctity of Human Life: A Personal and Eternal Perspective

Editor’s note: this article was originally published on the Baptist Bible Tribune and republished here with the author’s permission. Learn more about the author and the Baptist Bible Tribune at tribune.org. In 1984, President Ronald Reagan issued a presidential proclamation designating the third Sunday of January as National Sanctity of Human Life Day. This has become a day when churches and pro-life organizations across America come together to reflect on the value of every human life, from conception to natural death.  After the elections of 2024, this day brings a new level of importance. Missouri, the state where I live, recently passed Amendment 3, an initiative guaranteeing “the right to reproductive freedom.” It was a devastating blow that shifted Missouri from being one of the most pro-life states in the country to one of the least.  A Personal Heartbreak and a Profound Truth The sanctity of life isn’t just a theological or political issue for me—it’s deeply personal. My wife and I were still in our first year of marriage when she shared the exciting news that we were expecting our first child. I still remember the excitement that filled our hearts and home as we prepared for this new

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Hard Lives Still Matter – Why I’m Glad My Mom Chose Life

One of the common objections to the pro-life position is that if the child in the womb is born, he or she may have a terrible life. Therefore, it would be better if the child was never born. People will say things like, “Think about the life the baby will have,” or “If I bring a child into this world, they’ll have a terrible life.” While any mother should be concerned with the type of life their child will have, the quality of one’s life doesn’t determine his or her value. I’m a living example of someone who falls into this category of “should have been aborted” because of the life I had – but I’m thankful I’m here. My Upbringing I grew up in a single parent household and in low income housing. Most of my friends didn’t have fathers, and our mothers raised us while working full time jobs. The life I had was far from a “good” life. My mom became pregnant with me at 19 and the man whom she conceived me with, my biological father, was dating another woman without my mother’s knowledge and got her pregnant as well. My mom found out before I

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Church Ministry

The Ancient Church and Abortion: The Witness of Basil of Caesarea

The stance taken by Basil with regard to abortion is yet another facet of the compassion and concern he exhibited on this occasion during the winter of 368-369 and at other times during his life. This stance emanated from a genuine concern for the life of the unborn child and, as such, remains both a model and a challenge for the Church at the beginning of the twenty-first century.

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My Unborn Son’s Heartbeat and the Christian’s Own New Heart

I got to listen to my own unborn son’s heartbeat last week.  We first saw him in a dimly lit ultrasound room at our local women’s hospital. I’ve seen lots of friends’ ultrasounds and always marveled at God’s beautiful creation, but this time it was different. This was our son. This was his little head, his little body. His little hands. Our doctor had me hold the screen she was using to view the ultrasound, and she smiled as she brought our baby into view.  “You’ve got a little jumping bean!” she said. She explained to us that some unborn babies move around a lot at this stage of development (12-14 weeks), though my wife wouldn’t start feeling his movements for another couple of weeks. I watched my son jump on the ultrasound. Our doctor was having trouble pinpointing his heartbeat because he was moving so much, and I was having trouble not dropping the device because I was so full of joy. This was my precious little baby boy. This was my son. I’ve never felt so much desire to protect and provide for someone so small. “160,” she said. “Your baby’s heartbeat is 160 beats per minute.”  I

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Announcing Our Newest Event: Speaking Up for the Voiceless!

We’re so excited to announce our newest event, Speaking Up for the Voiceless! We’ve partnered with Lifeline Children’s Services to bring a weekend workshop to Immanuel Baptist Church in Louisville, KY, on April 26-27. This event will help equip your church to engage the culture and offer gospel hope and help to families and vulnerable children in the community. Registration is $10 (+ tax) and includes dinner (26th) and breakfast (27th). The recommended age range is high school – adult. To learn more about the event and to register, please visit: https://speakfortheunborn.harnessgiving.org/events/1359

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I Was Counseled to Abort, But God Helped Me Choose Life: Part 2

(To read part 1 of Christin’s story, click here.) Mauricio and I understood that both my son and daughter, equally, were being woven together by the Lord, that He loved them immeasurably, and that He had a plan for both of them. We knew that God could do a miracle and save our son if He so chose. How freeing it was to know that it was His responsibility to make that decision, not ours. With hearts full of hope emboldened by faith, we determined to bring our son before God’s throne of grace in prayer. Walking by Faith And so, along with our church, family, friends, and even strangers, that’s what we did. We prayed. We prayed that the babies would not be born early. God answered. I was induced on March 20th at 38 weeks, exactly the day the doctors had determined to be ideal. We prayed that Nathaniel would survive being intubated upon birth. God answered, and the doctors told us he did better than expected. We prayed that Nathaniel would stabilize enough to be transported to the Children’s Hospital. God answered, and the doctors told us he did better than expected. We prayed that he would

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I Was Counseled to Abort, But God Helped Me Choose Life: Part 1

I’ll never forget November 3, 2016. I was pregnant with twins, and it was the day of my 18-week ultrasound. I was so excited to find out the babies’ gender. Were we having two boys, two girls, or a boy and a girl? Though I would have been thrilled with any combination, I was hoping for a boy and a girl. My husband, Mauricio, and I arrived at the clinic near our home, and we were soon told that we had boy/girl twins. I was beyond ecstatic! The technician then asked us to wait while she tracked down the radiologist to come speak with us. An Unexpected Diagnosis The doctor entered and, with a solemn face, explained that our little boy had a condition called Congenital Diaphragmatic Hernia. I would need to go to a clinic for high-risk pregnancies the following week. Without any further information, we left the clinic hopeful that the issue was minor, blissfully unaware of the turmoil to come. The following week, we made our way to the Maternal Fetal Medicine Clinic. After a two-hour-long ultrasound, a middle-aged female doctor met with us and explained our son’s condition in detail. There was a large hole on

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Comforting Rachel: How the Christmas Story Helps Us Respond to Abortion

Two millennia ago in the little town of Bethlehem, Mary rejoiced that her baby boy had come into the world. As angels sang and shepherds spread the news of Jesus’ entrance into our world, it seemed like nothing could ruin this joyous night. But a horrible scene unfolded soon after Jesus’ birth. Mary and Joseph were forced to flee to Egypt to escape Herod’s cruel decree – every boy two years or younger in Bethlehem was to be killed. Precious babies were ripped from their mothers’ arms, and parents wept as their children were killed before their eyes. Gospel writer Matthew cites the prophet Jeremiah to encapsulate what these mothers felt:   “A voice was heard in Ramah, weeping and loud lamentation, Rachel weeping for her children; she refused to be comforted, because they are no more.” (Matt. 2:18) Mary rejoiced that her son was born. Soon after, Rachel (representing the town of Bethlehem) refused to be comforted because her babies were no more.  Weep With Rachel There were an estimated 511,000 abortions during the first 6 months of 2023, according to recent research. Though some states have banned abortion, that number represents a slight increase over last year during the

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It Wasn’t My Body, But It Was My Baby

In the summer of 1998 a friend and I spent an evening together. A few weeks later she told me she was pregnant, and it was mine. Neither of us expected it, and neither of us felt ready to raise a child together. We were not in love and thought it would be better to go our separate ways with a clean slate. So we choose to have an abortion. We gathered $400 from a friend and went to a clinic that prescribed us a pill. We drove to someone’s empty home where we would spend the night. I got her a glass of water to take the pill. I held her hand while she cramped and cried. I was there as we ended the life of our unborn child. Some choices leave scars. Our abortion was one of those choices. In the years since our decision, I’ve often reflected on what happened that summer. It has changed me. It has given me more compassion toward those who face the fear of an unplanned pregnancy. God has brought healing and shown forgiveness that I do not deserve. You can read more about that here. My experience with abortion is one reason I often speak

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God Can Use Your Church To Help Heal Post-Abortive Women – My Story

Statistically, it was inevitable that I would find myself outside the doors of an abortion facility. I was twenty years old and three months postpartum with my first child. I did many things I shouldn’t have done to end up in that position, and my life felt void of hope. Even so, like over 70% of women who have had abortions, I often think I would have made a different decision if the father of the child had been supportive. I sat in the lobby with the other women and didn’t make eye contact, already feeling the weight and grief of the choice that I was making. I didn’t know what a sidewalk counselor was at the time and don’t remember seeing any. The only thing I do remember is refusing to look at the monitor during the sonogram. I pinched my eyes closed and turned my head as far away from the screen as I could, and the words, “about six weeks,” are all that linger in my memory. I desperately wish I could go back to that moment and say, “Stop.” After it was done, I was taken into a recovery room. There wasn’t a protein bar in

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To End the Killing of Babies, We Need a Loving Revolution

Editors’ note: This article was published on the Gospel Coalition and republished here with the author’s permission. It was originally adapted from Rebecca McLaughlin’s The Secular Creed: Engaging 5 Contemporary Claims (TGC, 2021). Get it in the TGC bookstore or on Amazon. One of the brute facts by which we can judge how the ancient world valued women is the common practice of abandoning baby girls. The practice of leaving newborn girls to die led to a gender imbalance in the Greco-Roman empire. We gain a sobering insight into this from a letter by a Roman soldier to his wife in 1 BC. The otherwise affectionate letter includes this instruction: “Above all, if you bear a child and it is male, let it be; if it is female, cast it out.” Babies with disabilities were also discarded. In fact, the Greek philosopher Aristotle had pitched for eugenics legislation: “Let there be a law that no deformed child shall live.” The idea of abandoning baby girls is alien to us. But even today, we see this practice continuing in the two largest countries that haven’t yet been significantly shaped by Christianity. The Chinese church is growing so fast that it could reshape Chinese culture in the next generation. But selective

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Talking About Difficult Topics (Like Abortion) in Student Ministry

My role as a Student Pastor places me right in the heart of a traditional corner of our country, in a staunchly Southern Baptist Church, surrounded by parents deeply rooted in conservative values. This church and community stand arm-in-arm on numerous pro-life platforms. Yet, the week Roe v. Wade was overturned, I was taken aback to find a flurry of distressed and fiery posts from my students on Instagram and TikTok. “Reproductive freedom lost!” they exclaimed, expressing outrage over perceived “women’s rights” being stripped away. These are the same students who, in many ways, exemplify theological conservatism, fervently exalting Christ in their lives. So, why the surprise reaction? The core issue here is the vacuum left by a lack of intentional discipleship within the church—a void that is promptly filled by the relentless discipleship of social media and secular culture. As those called to disciple and care for these students, we cannot shy away from plunging into these complex discussions, especially when it comes to controversial subjects like abortion. We might be tempted to sidestep such hot topics, but that would do our students a disservice. The reality is, there are plenty of voices already attempting to influence our students

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How We Can Be Motivated By Love in Pro-Life Ministry

Throughout history, humans have been motivated to do dangerous things for heroic reasons. One recent example is Bridger Walker, a six-year-old boy who stepped between his younger sister and a neighbor’s charging German Shepherd. The dog’s owner was able to restrain the dog and call for emergency responders, but not before the dog latched onto Bridger’s face and left horrible gashes. The resulting two-hour surgery on Bridger’s face required ninety stitches. “Bridger, in his own words and without hesitation, declared: ‘If someone had to die, I thought it should be me,’” his parents wrote.  Great love motivated Bridger to action. Jesus expresses this sentiment most poignantly: “Greater love has no one than this, that someone lay down his life for his friends.” – John‬ ‭15:13 What does it mean to be motivated by love? The word motivated is an adjective that describes someone who is moved to action by something. For example, athletes are often motivated by a trophy to train. Actors are often motivated by fame to memorize a script.  Unlike these two examples, however, Christians are not primarily motivated by what they receive. Christians obey the commands of Jesus because of His great love for them. Jesus is

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What’s Coming in 2023?

2022 was a massive year in the pro-life movement; in fact, in the political sphere, I assume that the Dobbs decision will be one of the biggest forward advances that we see in our lifetimes. Since the end of June, Speak for the Unborn has been working to continue to serve our Network Churches to become gospel-centered voices for life in their communities. Many of our churches have been met with the beautiful challenge of how to continue serving abortion-minded women and men with the gospel when the abortion clinic closest to them is closed. How do we continue to connect with them in order to bring them gospel hope and into the lifelong care of the local church? After all, while we know that while many states now have abortion bans, there will still always be people in our communities who think that abortion is their only hope. There will still be women trying to access the abortion pill or driving out-of-state for surgical abortions.  What is the answer? How do we continue to share gospel hope and help when it is no longer as “simple” as being present on an abortion clinic sidewalk?  We began the process of

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